Features Editor and Staff Writer
As
you head off to college, one thing you'll need is a roommate, as most
universities require freshmen to live on campus. Here are some tips from two
future roommates on how to deal with this new experience.
1)
Plan
what each person will bring before moving day. While some surprises can be
good, if both of you show up with mini-fridges it could become an issue.
2)
When
selecting a roommate, going with your best friend can be a risky move. You may
be two peas in a pod right now, but it’s said you have to live with someone to
truly know him or her.
3)
You’ll
have to learn how to deal with conflicts that arise with your roommate. It is
important to communicate and be upfront with your problems. Letting issues
simmer only leads to contention and mistrust.
4)
Lay
down some ground rules on day one. You should agree on a few basic rules, such
as what (and who) is allowed in the dorm, what food belongs to whom, or what
time to turn out the lights. This leads to fewer misunderstandings in the
future.
5)
Don’t
expect to be with your roommate 24/7. There will be time where one of you goes
out without the other or one of you needs some time alone. Remember that you
are both individuals and will need to go your own ways.
